21 *Sex* Bucket List Ideas for 2021

Now this is one type of bucket list we can get behind (pun-intended). If you're looking to try something new this year, here are 21 sex bucket list ideas for 2021!

Have Sex in the Shower

The positions maybe a little more difficult but the reward of seeing your partner all hot and steamy, literally and figuratively, will be 100% worth it.

Experiment with Bondage

You may be intimidated by the idea of bondage because it’s a part of BDSM and that just sounds scary right? Well, you don’t have to be into all of the kinks to enjoy being tied up once in a while. It’s a great way to show you trust your partner and vice versa.

Use a Sex Toy *With* Your Partner.

Sex toys don’t have to be for solo play only. They are a great way to intensify female orgasms so just accept that there are some things a penis just can't do and get this toy, trust me.

Read Erotica to Each Other

Find the steamiest erotica you possibly can and read it out loud to each other to set the mood. Feel like it might be a little awkward? That's fine, laughter can also lead to sex.

Have Phone Sex

Your girlfriend is quarantined for 14 days? No problem, phone sex can be incredibly sexy. Hearing her sexy af voice telling you exactly what she wants to do to you when she’s out of quarantine will definitely get the job done.

Try CBD Lube

CBD lube can lead to increased sensitivity for some, and most experience relaxation which creates more willingness to receive pleasurable touch which in turn may lead to better and stronger orgasms.

Maybe Choking is for You

A little bit of *consensual* choking, gagging, and breath play can be waaaay fun. Just make sure you have a safe word and establish boundaries beforehand.

Use a Butt Plug

Butt plugs are often used as a prep for anal sex but it can create pleasure in other ways too. Wearing a butt plug during penetrative sex has the secondary effect of narrowing the vaginal canal just don’t forget the lube!

Watch Porn with your Partner.

It can be a good way to find out what turns you and your partner on and it’s even more fun when you act of what they are doing!

Have Sex in a Car

Want to relive your college days? The chance of being caught just adds to the fun!

Try 6-9ing.

Is it super hot, or totally overrated? You be the judge.

Make a Sex Playlist

Everyone knows that a playlist can make or break a sexy experience. Spend time with your partner crafting the perfect playlist, press play, and enjoy the fruits of your labor.

Have an “All for You” Night

Taking turns and create a night of sex where it's all about one partner's sexual pleasure.

Wake up your Partner with Oral Sex

This one explains itself!

Have Anal Sex

With the right partner and a lot of lube, you'd be surprised at how much your thoughts about anal sex might change.

Have a Quickie

Rush home during your lunch break and have your partner meet you. The rest is easy and so hot: Get naked, get it on, and then get back to work. Or if you are WFH try take a break at the same time and meet in the bedroom between zoom calls.

Have Sex on the Beach

Yes, sand will get everywhere, but so what? It’s a bucket list item. Just make sure to be safe about it and keep it *hidden*.

Play a Sex Game.

Ever heard of strip poker? What about a version of Monopoly where the winner takes all of the other person’s clothes instead of their fake cash?

Sex Marathon

Ever just devote an entire day, and maybe the night, to having sex? During a sex marathon, you do just that, taking to the bed for hours on end, trying new positions, toys, lubes, you name it.

Have Sex Daily

Make a goal to have sex daily for a week, a month, until the next major holiday, on every major holiday, or even get ambitious and aim for some form of sexual contact for 365 days straight.

Have Sex in Front of a Mirror

The more mirrors you can find, the better on this one. Book that fancy hotel room or position yourself in front of a mirror in your home. Watch your facial expressions and enjoy how your bodies glide together. Yes, it might feel awkward at first, but if you let yourself enjoy the feelings and the sights, you’ll forget any weirdness.

What's on your sex bucket list?

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