When I first received it, I played around with what this would feel like over my clothes and I knew then, "this baby is onto something." My clitoris is large, so I'm always afraid of too much friction, which is why clit suckers are my jam, however during my ritual, it was a yummy time! The three levels were perfect for build-up, however there was a lot of heat coming off of my toy. I figured it was intentional, to simulate a warm mouth, but it kept getting hotter, anyone else have that same happening?